One of her secrets is she uses her abilities of talking to the other side to seeing the energy which is referred to an aura around a person. She states that as a person soul wants something from relief of suffering to healing a heartache (http://www.hope-giving-life.com/). The energy around a person tells a story. She can see the energy vibration change colors. Each color represents certain emotions. As a person is talking or thinking the variables in the energy field changes with each thought, emotions, beliefs, and/or decisions.
Not only does she colors and stories she can hear and communicate with the otherside (http://www.hope-giving-life.com/) to help her explain
what she is seeing. 's8220;The other side of what's8221; you ask. Bates says it is the other side of the veil. She further explains it is one's8217;s Divine right to stay connected to
Source. The angels, helpers, other higher evolved souls's8212;even loved ones have messages to help for healing. It isn's8217;t just talking to the dead because Angels are not dead. A
person is never alone. She states that if a person believes that they have fallen from the grace of God, separation and abandonment are the feelings that are built up inside a person. She
said that a person is always getting the answers they seek but just are not attuned (also referred to as being 's8220;tuned in's8221;) to hearing them.
Why are most of us not attuned to hearing the other side Is it because people haven's8217;t been taught how Is it because it was misunderstood, feared or shunned These are a few common
questions a person asks when encountering a medium or a psychic. So what makes Medicine Woman special Brenda Bates says that she was born with a gift and was taught to shut if off because
it was thought to be wrong and that she would be rejected for being 's8220;different.'s8221; She was told by family members, teachers, and religious leaders to avoid using her gifts
because it could hurt her. They were trying to protect her and she was looking to express a natural part of who she is. This gift or ability was put into the same category as drugs and/or
alcohol. She successfully 's8220;shut it off's8221; after she 's8216;saw's8217; a traumatic event prior to it happening. She knew what was going to happen to her boyfriend (he died in a
car accident) before it happened's8212;and she was right; but who could she tell Because events in our lives are thought to be out of our control, it can be difficult to remain
's8216;open's8217; to such a gift or talent.
Bates spent the first 20 years shutting it off because that was to please mankind. She is spending her remain years following her life-purpose, path, and energy medicine (http://www.hope-giving-life.com/) that are calling. She loves to walk her talk and her choices are between God and her. She could no longer avoid
this gift because as she continued to pray and meditate (which she refers to as 's8220;shut up and listen's8221;), she began to trust and have faith. She started to get information from
both sides, which required her to redefine the old definitions. Through this redefinition, she takes a lot of the mystery out of the unknown.