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Why Knowing the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity Wont Help You Catch a Cheating...

The first question people ask Ruth Houston when they find out what she does is 's8220; What are the top 10 signs of infidelity's8221; Houston, an infidelity expert, lists them below.



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working late

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increased concern about wardrobe or personal appearance

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unaccounted for absences

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suspicious phone calls -- hang ups, wrong numbers, etc.

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lots of lies or excuses

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stops wearing wedding ring

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starts complaining, arguing or picking fights over trivial things

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decrease in sex life

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lipstick on his collar

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strange numbers on phone bill or on slips of paper

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unusual or unexplained charges on credit card bills



These are the top 10 signs of infidelity. But according to Houston, founder of InfidelityAdvice.com and author of Is He Cheating on You 's8211; 829 Telltale Signs, knowing the top 10 signs won's8217;t help you catch a cheating mate. 's8220;Seeing these signs is no guarantee that your partner is cheating,'s8221; Houston warns. 's8220;And not seeing them doesn's8217;t guarantee that you have a faithful mate.'s8221;



Look for the subtle signs



Houston explains, 's8220;The obvious signs of infidelity -- the top 10 signs -- are the signs the cheater will usually cover up. So instead, be alert for subtle signs. These are the signs the cheater doesn's8217;t even realize he's8217;s displaying, so there's8217;s no way he can cover them up. Learn how to spot the subtle signs, and you's8217;ll catch the cheater every time.



's8220;Signs of infidelity seldom appear in isolation,'s8221; Houston says. 's8220;Where there's8217;s one sign, there are plenty of corroborating signs. Most of them are staring you right in the face, just waiting to be found. It doesn's8217;t take a lot of time, effort, or skill. Knowing what to look for is the key.



The Categories of Infidelity Signs



Drawing on 12 years of research and thousands of interviews, Houston has identified 21 categories of infidelity signs. Her book, Is He Cheating on You documents literally hundreds of telltale signs. Categories include physical appearance, conversational clues, work habits, telephone tip-offs, day-to-day behavior, personality changes, car clues, how he relates to you -- just to name a few. Each category contains 19 to 92 specific telltale signs. For a detailed description of each category and the number of signs it contains, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com (InfidelityInfo at gmail.com) with 's8220;categories of infidelity signs's8221; in the subject line.



How to Tell if He's8217;s Cheating



's8220;If your partner is really cheating,'s8221; says Houston, 's8220;You's8217;ll find more than just a sprinkling of telltale signs. You's8217;ll find clusters of signs from several categories all at once.'s8221; The more signs you spot, the greater the likelihood that your partner is cheating, or planning to do so very soon. Once again Houston stresses, 's8220;Knowing what to look for is the key.'s8221; All you need are your own eyes and ears, your personal knowledge of your partner, and the information in Houston's8217;s book.



A Guide for Signs of Infidelity



Houston's8217;s book, Is He Cheating on You 's8211; 829 Telltale Signs, lists practically every known sign of infidelity -- including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Many consider Houston's8217;s book to be the most comprehensive infidelity reference of its kind. Despite the title, most of the signs of infidelity in Is He Cheating on You also apply to cheating women as well as cheating men. However, by popular request, Houston added a special section to the e-book version just for men, entitled Is SHE Cheating



Safeguard Your Relationship by Knowing the Signs



Houston, who was once an infidelity victim herself, offers this advice: 's8220;Don's8217;t depend on the presence or absence of the top 10 signs of infidelity to tell you whether or not your partner is cheating, or on the verge of having an extramarital affair. Learn to spot the subtle signs of a cheating mate. You don's8217;t want to be the last to know. The future of your marriage or relationship may depend on your ability to recognize the telltale signs in time.'s8221;



About Ruth Houston:



Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the author of Is He Cheating on You 's8211; 829 Telltale Signs, which documents practically every known sign of infidelity. Ruth is frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues and infidelity-related breaking news, and has been quoted in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, Cosmopolitan, First for Women, Complete Woman, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, the Toronto Sun, the Houston Chronicle, New York Newsday, Crain's8217;s New York Business, City Life, MSN Lifestyle, iVillage, Netscape, Yahoo Personals, Newhouse News Service, United Press International, Reuters, Entertainment Online, Hollywood Heat and numerous other print and online media.



She has also been a guest on The Today Show, Good Day New York, Ireland's8217;s Late Late Show, Telemundo, 1010WINS, TalkAmerica, BBC, CBC, and over 250 other radio and TV talk shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, New Zealand, and the Caribbean.



For more information on infidelity visit http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com



To interview Ruth Houston or have her speak to your group, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail (InfidelityExpert at gmail.com)



To order Is He Cheating on You 's8211; 829 Telltale Signs, call 1-800-431-1579, or order from www.InfidelityAdvice.com or Amazon.com.



The downloadable e-book version of Is He Cheating on You 's8211; 829 Telltale Signs, can be ordered from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html

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